Thursday, April 7, 2016

To love is to be vulnerable

March was a crazy time for everyone here in Huehue. We hosted three mission teams in five weeks, my family came to visit, we had to leave for Mexico to renew our visas, moved house, and saw one of our family sibling sets adopted and flown to the United States. Also, one of the girls lost a tooth and another found 5 quetzales, so it’s been an eventful few weeks. Needless to say, the last month brought both a lot of blessings and a lot of busyness to the community.

More than anything, we have been absolutely blown away by the amount of support we’ve received in the last couple of months. In the last ten weeks, we’ve received Spanish and English children’s books, blankets, lice combs, undergarments, and a good amount of chocolate (for sanity). We want to thank each and every person who has shown so much generosity over the last couple of months. We can tell you that the girls have felt the outpouring of love.

The biggest piece of news from this month is that Regina, one of the oldest girls we were taking care of, has been adopted along with her siblings by an American couple. This last weekend, when we saw them off, was the definition of bittersweet. We could not be happier to see Regina and her siblings taken into a loving, stable home as they continue to grow up. At the same time, there were a good amount of tears as we realized they were leaving our Huehue family for good. Please keep Maria, Cristina, Regina and Daniel (as well the Delap parents) in your prayers as they make this exciting, scary, and wonderful transition.

Beyond this, our biggest prayer request is for wisdom and provision as we look to transitioning into full family-style housing very soon. The idea of living here at the Fundacion and taking care of the girls as a ‘trial’ was to see how the kids responded and how it works over all. After seeing many behavioral issues come to light, attitudes change, and love received, we’re convinced that the verdict is: it works. With this in mind, we want to have the girls move in with us as soon as possible, and start transitioning the rest of the Fundacion into a similar setting. This will take a lot of prayer, and even more faith, to bring about. We need finances, willing house parent volunteers, and a huge amount of grace to move forward. Please join us in prayer as we move forward seeing this accomplished.

During the last two months, we’ve been through a steep learning curve – and we’re still far from the top. Between running Google searches for things like “best essential oil for bee stings” and “how to discipline a child who breaks something” – along with quite a bit of prayer and trial and error – we’ve learned a lot about what it means to love unconditionally. Not that we have shown love unconditionally – instead, our girls and Jesus have shown us unconditional love as we’ve lost our patience and made many mistakes along the way. We look forward to experiencing more of this kind of love firsthand.


As a final thought, I want to share a post that one of our teammates/workplace proximity associate/friends/family members posted. Marcos has been here for just about two years, and sums up our thinking about the “new normal”. After a year and a half in Guatemala (and counting!), and two months with these girls, “normal” has come to mean something completely different. Check it out here: https://marktomarcos.wordpress.com/2016/04/07/normal/









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